move on 

stop waiting for people to show up

stop waiting for people to care.

stop looking for potential that just isn’t there.

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Ever never lasting 

a man’s love is as conditional as the thing he desires. To what he can get out of it.

a woman’s love is unconditional to what she can put into it. To the potential she sees. 

empower me. you do

I have not been let down as many times emotionally from a woman than i have a man. Women are the driving force for me to love and self love. From too many setbacks and unclear paths with a male companion, i decided a long time ago to give my heart and soul to me. To women like me. To women like you. 

Yet the bit that frustrates me aside from the empowerment is the distrust in women. We fear each others power and sexual prowess in relation to a man. Sometimes it is not enough hearing it from her, that you need to hear it from him. The final word. The final say. It is the bitterness and rivalry we are conditioned to play out in various scenarios with other females. Yes, disliking a female on personal matters relating to you does not mean that you have dropped the baton of empowerment. It is still there. But the sizing up and deducing where the other womans loyalty lies is a tricky game. The ‘maybe she said that to play with me. Did she really mean it. He didn’t think so.’ That dialogue is one which we all women need to work on. The catfighting over each others ex and asking ‘Is she better than me?’ 

No honey. That is where we fall down the rabbit hole. 

‘She is beautiful in her entirety, as I am in mine.’ Say it with me. Empower yourself and don’t fall suit to doubting the divine feminine energy which you posess.

Lots of love xo

circle of love, circle of life 

and it’s a sad thing 

policing your daughters

because you teach them that how others percieve them

is of a higher value than their self worth.
it’s even sadder how the same ways in which you shun them

and then are surprised by their sneaky ways 

is an outlet which becomes a habit when practiced more than once.

it’s angry how you say you are not your parents generation yet you desire to follow the same traditions 

into an age where letters are not even sent.

it’s pitiful how the freedom you suck out of her is the same freedom which will then be controlled by her spouse/partner

it’s amazing this circle of life you keep us girls in

to be policed

to be silenced

to be conditioned to feel nothing